Sihing Egemen Baranok Blog and FAQ

Self defense is a huge subject.  It involves two sides. An attacker or a threat and a defender. Any one of those parties could be more than one person. Could be armed, could be on drugs. Both sides have their own psychological states. Strengths and weaknesses. So basically it is impossible to register, memorize and discuss every single possibility, but nevertheless there are some facts and general mistakes about everyday life which even by thinking about them we can improve our security.

But do keep in mind none of these tips and ideas are a substitute for the real thing -a realistic martial arts training.

• Use the city for reflections. Windows and mirrors can show you whats behind you or around the corner. Street lights, car headlights often cast the shadows of people behind you from meters away, if you know where to stand.
• Work on your peripheral vision. See what’s around you without focusing on small details.  See the colors, movements people. You can practice this on your everyday life. It will give you higher awareness.
• It is not a good idea to listen to ipod in full volume while you are walking alone in a dark alley.
• Did I say walking alone in a dark alley? Don’t. Take a cab, you are not spending unnecessary money or being lazy. You are paying for your security.
• Late night rides in a cab? Make a habit of writing down the license plate each time you get in.
• When confronted by a threat most people tuck their heads down, raise their shoulders and look away. Three body language moves that inform the other side that you are scared and they control the scene.
• When you feel somebody is up close to you, don’t walk faster or look away, run if you believe you can outrun him, but if not slow down and confront him. By being unpredictable and confrontational you can keep the initiative.
• When you confront the threat face to face, body language is often the key. Try to be calm, assertive, be in control.
• A street encounter is like a poker game where the defender is slightly in disadvantage. Basically nobody knows what the other has (a police badge, a glock, a knife, serious martial arts training, a violent crime record,…) but by playing smart and keeping a poker face you can bluff your way out of it.
• Learn Martial Arts, realistic Martial Arts.